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Buckingham Palace didn’t want Elton John to sing Candle in the Wind at Diana’s funeral as it was ‘too sentimental’


Sir Elton’s emotional rendition of Candle In The Wind was a defining moment of Princess Diana’s funeral (Credits: PA)

Buckingham Palace did not want Sir Elton John to sing Candle In The Wind at Princess Diana’s funeral, according to newly-released government files.

The much-loved rendition of Sir Elton’s classic song – a defining moment of the funeral that brought Britain to a standstill – almost didn’t happen, due to pushback from Buckingham Palace.

Papers released by the National Archives suggest there was resistance to the plan amid concerns that the rewritten lyrics by Sir Elton were ‘too sentimental’.

Westminster Abbey had even arranged for a young saxophonist to be put on standby to deliver a solo instrumental version of the song, although this was considered to be a ‘very second best shot’.

Dean of Westminster, the Very Rev Dr Wesley Carr, personally appealed to the palace to allow Sir Elton to perform the emotional song in tribute to the Princess of Wales.

He successfully argued that allowing Sir Elton to appear would be an ‘imaginative and generous’ gesture to the public who had famously turned against the royal family in the days following the princess’s death due to the perceived indifference of the family to her death.

EMBARGOED TO 0001 THURSDAY DECEMBER 30 File photo dated 6/9/1997 of singer Elton John performing a rewritten version of his song 'Candle in the wind' as a tribute to Diana, Princess of Wales, at her funeral. The Dean of Westminster personally appealed to Buckingham Palace to allow Sir Elton John to deliver his famous rendition of Candle In The Wind at the funeral of Diana, Princess of Wales, according to newly released government files. Issue date: Thursday December 30, 2021. PA Photo. See PA story RECORDS Diana. Photo credit should read: PA Wire
Sir Elton’s emotional rendition of Candle In The Wind was a defining moment of Princess Diana’s funeral (Credits: PA)

Candle In The Wind, originally written in memory of Marilyn Monroe, was widely taken up by the public as a symbol of memorial to the princess, who had famously been a friend of Sir Elton.

In response, Sir Elton and his songwriting partner Bernie Taupin rewrote the lyrics, changing the opening line from ‘Goodbye Norma Jean’ (Monroe’s real name) to ‘Goodbye England’s rose’.

A note sent to a senior member of the royal household by the dean, who was involved in negotiations over the service between the Palace and Diana’s family, said the song had captured the public mood.

‘This is a crucial point in the service and we would urge boldness. It is where the unexpected happens and something of the modern world that the princess represented,’ he wrote.

‘I respectfully suggest that anything classical or choral (even a popular classic such as something by Lloyd Webber) is inappropriate.

‘Better would be the enclosed song by Elton John (known to millions and his music was enjoyed by the princess), which would be powerful.

PRINCESS DIANA AND ELTON JOHN FILE PHOTO...WAS96:DIANA-ELTON:MILAN,ITALY,4SEPT97 - FILE PHOTO 22JUL97 - Princess Diana comforts pop star Elton John as he weeps openly at a memorial mass for Italian designer Gianni Versace in Milan in July 22 1997 file photo. Elton John will sing at Diana's funeral on September 6 before a worldwide television audience expected to run into hundreds of millions. He will sing a version of "Candle in the Wind." cm /Photo byStefano Rellandini REUTERS...I...ODD POL
Princess Diana and Sir Elton were firm friends, and he was greatly affected by her death (Picture: Reuters)

‘He has written new words to the tune which is being widely played and sung throughout the nation in memorial to Diana. It is all the time on the radio.

The note continued: ‘Its use here would be imaginative and generous to the millions who are feeling personally bereaved: it is popular culture at its best.

‘If it were thought the words too sentimental (although that is by no means a bad thing given the national mood), they need not be printed – only sung.

‘I would be prepared to discuss the significance of this suggestion over the phone with anyone.’

ITALY - APRIL 22: Diana, Princess Of Wales, Wearing A Silk Suit Designed By Fashion Designer Bruce Oldfield, During An Official Overseas Visit. Diana's Crystal Heart Earrings Are By Jewellers Butler And Wilson. (Photo by Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images)
The British public was devastated by the loss of Diana (Picture: Getty)

No 10 was copied in the note, and it is included in Downing Street files released by the National Archives, although there is no record of the reply.

The newly-released papers also show that the Abbey originally and wrongly believed Sir Elton intended to sing his other hit, Your Song, which was wrongly listed as Our Song on the first draft order of service.

In the notes, it is described as ‘a different style of music, popular and associated with the princess’.

Diana and her lover, Dodi Fayed, son of Harrods owner Mohamed Al-Fayed, died in a car crash in Paris on August 31 1997, prompting a huge outpouring of public grief.

The public funeral of Diana, Princess of Wales, London, UK, 6th September 1997, Queen Elizabeth II and Prince Philip, Duke of Edinburgh, Tributes to the late Princess from the public, 6th September 1997. (Photo by John Shelley Collection/Avalon/Getty Images)
Queen Elizabeth was among those criticised for her perceived indifference to the princess’ fate (Picture: Getty)

The princess’s divorce from the Prince of Wales had been finalised the previous year and there was widespread public anger at the perceived indifference of the royals, including Queen Elizabeth, to her death.

However, he later admitted that he would never play the song – even the original version – in front of princes William and Harry as it is ‘too close to home’.

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